He showed up at my door a half hour ago with the divorce papers. He left about 10 minutes ago. I haven't been feeling well and now this!! I am not feeling very strong. I am falling apart again. I thought there was some hope for us, but I guess not. I will check back in when I feel a little bit better. I need to lie down.
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I\'m so sorry. My heart goes out to you. xxx
He said I Love you just as your are!
Oh my friend my heart goes out to you.. I hope this brings you inspiration.
I myself come from folks that dont get what marriiage is all about.
We seem not to be, old enought,mature enought to know how or what a husband, wife are suppose to do or behave. In the old school tradition of southern farmer I married age 18. After all in my grandmothers words nice girls marry after school or go to college.
Couldnt afford college so 6 months late I was married! Woo woo stupid yes I married \"yet again at 29 and failed again. Finally at 37 I got it the point . I was then a divorcee , a single parent with no real markatable skills I would have numerious jobs , nothing was ever quite right.
I told God one day that I would never marry again that was it , I am sure he got a good laught chuckled and said bet me I am the house I allways win. So one fine day I was board with my cooking work was finally great a manufacture rep. I didnt need a man. It was though boring eating alone.
It was the 80\'s innernet dating had not been invented. I said one morning alone in my little apartment looking at the paper and turned to a new section the singles page. So thought why not, tried a few I did I think they must have been createns from the underworld.
No more of that ,, I read and read the paper then a add caught my eye. One said insurance agent with four kids looking for a date,,, very dull sounding, next and another one divorced 4 kids need alot of work. Ah\'\' I thought a honest man admitting he is not perfect, I will give him a call. Twelve years later my niece would ask me \"Auntie dont you and your husband ever ague and yell. No we dont
! It says this is the day that the Lord has made for you. Rejoyce in the good and the bad because it is allway changing and teaching us
Peace to you
Yoohoo
accident victom, parkinson, graves disease, reynards syndrome and yes God is still good.
PS I have dislexia when I get stressed the add I answer was the wrong add! But not according to Gd it was the right add
my heart is breaking for you, just sent you a long email, i hope it makes sense. wish we lived closer to hang out....he\'s a jerk, UGH, i wish there was something I could do...stay strong and remember you deserve SO much better!! remember what you\'ve told me, you said I sound just like you felt a few weeks ago and that it definately gets better, so just remember that, you are going to feel better and better every single week and in a few months, you\'ll be like husband who???? it will happen!
It is such a painful time. It gets better (I have been divorced for 8???years). I can\'t believe it has been that long. Take some deep breaths, pamper yourself, let yourself cry- it helps release the pain and stress of it all. Bless you sweetie!
My husband of 31 years abruptly left me also. He served me with divorce papers 2 months later. I felt my world collaspe. It has been several weeks past now and I am definately doing better. Time really helps.