OK SOMETHING LIGHT AND FUN, HOW ABOUT A COOL AND LAID BACK FREE GAME.  http://www.k2xl.com/games/boomshine/WAIT FOR THE ADVERTISING TO GET OUT OF THE WAY FIRST, WAIT FOR THE WORD BOOMSHINE TO APPEAR.  THE MUSIC IS OK BUT GETS MONOTONOUS.  IF YOU DIDN'T CLICK THE SPEAKER TO TURN IT OF, JUST RELOAD THE PAGE AND WAIT FOR IT TO START AGAIN, THEN CLICK THE SPEAKER IN THE LOWER RIGHT OF THE PLAYING FIELD TO TURN THE MUSIC OFF.  THE SOUND EFFECTS WILL CONTINUE TO PLAY ARE ARE PLEASANT AND ALMOST RELAXING.IT GETS TOUGHER AS YOU GO, I'VE BEEN TO LEVEL 8 SO FAR.i LOOKED AT ALL OF THE DISCUSSIONS ON FORGIVENESS.  MY ONLY THOUGHT IS THAT IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO FORGIVE, DON'T LET ANYONE SHAME YOU INTO IT.  FORCING A VICTIM TO FORGIVE THEIR ABUSER IS JUST ANOTHER FORM OF VICTIM BLAMING.  DON'T LET RELIGIOUS GUILT KEEP YOU PRISONER AS A VICTIM WHEN YOU COULD BE BECOMING A SURVIVOR.  FORGIVING IS A LOT LIKE GREIVING A LOSS.  EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN TIMING AND YOU CANNOT TAKE SHORT-CUTS THROUGH THE PROCESS.  SO WHAT IF IT TAKES THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, ITS OK.  TAKE CARE OF YOU FIRST, GET YOUR NEEDS (EMOTIONAL, COMFORT, VALIDATION, COMPASSION, LOVE, ETC.) FIRST.  FORGIVENESS MAY BE PART OF YOUR SURVIVOR PROCESS, LET IT HAPPEN IN ITS OWN TIME.I DID FIND THE WIKIPEDIA SITE (AS REFERENCED HERE IN DAILY STRENGTH) ON FORGIVENESS INFORMATIVE AND ENLIGHTENING.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forgiveness