As I browse through Daily Strength I see things that are not good for those who are doing it and those that it is being done to.  So, I am going to identify my self with these statements.1. I will not enable you to continue in anything that is harmful to you or others.  That includes giving you sympathy that you turn into permission to continue doing it.  I came here expecting to be among those who are getting and giving support. I am here because I need that help and I am here to give that help to others.2. If you are here to obtain some sort of personal gratification (such as crusing for sympathetic women that you can prey upon) I will call you on that behaviour.  Yes my wife is in here and we do share some of the things in each others home page.  This is a place of honor, let us please treat each other honorably.3. I will only give out the same things that I need my self and I will only give the best that I have.  If you delete what I've given because you are really asking for sympathy and permission to continue what you are doing then I will not give anymore.  By deleting the best that someone gives you you are not only cutting yourself off but you are also cutting off those who were in there with you who would have benifited whether you did or not.My hope is that this is a place of help and hope.-geomar