Hello. I dont even know where to start. I used to date this girl for about 2 years, and it had both horrible times and wonderful times. We agreed to stop talking to eachother about a month ago.. But two days later...she started to talk to me again. And I missed her so badly..so I talked back.we have our little fights even though we are not dating. but last weekend was amazing.. I fell so deeply inlove with her. She was wearing the ring I once gave her..We had an amazing time with eachother.
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Going back and forth just isn\'t worth the effort... one of my friends once told me that \"it takes both people to make the relationship work\"... you shouldn\'t have to work SO HARD to make your relationship with her work. It should happen on its own. If the bad times are more prominent than the good times, as much of a good time as you have with the girl- it isn\'t worth it.
I know in my own life, my marriage was the major cause of my depression. Since my divorce, I have found a major piece of mind by no longer having the negative voices in my life. There is someone else out there that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated which is great and with respect. Take Care.
Dont think about it too much and just have fun!!! Keep an open mind and maybe things will turn out for the best!!! Love is great!!! Enjoy it whenever you can!!!
wow, u rly kinda sound like me....see, i had this guy i was dating, and i fell in love with him so easily. we had been friends before we dated, and i guess i had always wanted to be more. and when we first broke up, i went away on vacation and while i was away, we were talking on the phone a lot, and i asked him to give me a second chance. so he did. and we dated again, and i was still completely in love with him. but we broke up again. and this time, it hurt a lot more, but he came back to me, and i didn\'t know if i wanted to go through it all again, but i still loved him a lot.
the moral of my story is, people say he used me, but that\'s not how i see it, since i was so willing to be with him, and he\'ll deny it too, of course, if u said that he used me to his face, he\'d get really really mad at you.
and what i\'m trying to say. is you have to decide if you can handle being hurt again by her. cause it only gets worse when it\'s the same person. but the good times. well, sometimes they seem to be worth it...
I know how u feel, i wa dating my ex fiance for 3 years.. I suffered alot ov mental and emotional abuse as well as physical abuse yet i couldn\'t leave him because i thought i loved him and i thought he loved me..... we\'r supposed t learn from our mistakes but i can tell u from experiance it aint always that easy.. if u ever need to talk im only a click away xxxx