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I left my boyfriend and let him know I am moving to Eureka. So I am now at my apartment til I get notice. I had to go back to get something and he took my keys. Part of him was joking and the rest was sad burt he said something to me that made me nervous. He said he had my keys and that he was not going to leave. That he was kidnapping me and if I wanted to go I would have to call the police and say I had been kidnapped. I said you dont want to go to jail again and he said he did not care. I asked him not to make me cry so he gave me the keys back.  His guilt trips about my hard choice of moving for medical reasons. I had to go he was so depressing because he had no hopes since he got out of prison for something stupid. It was killing me. The house was a cave with all his stuff. Did not make room for me and he was always correcting or raising his vouce with me besides the depression. I finally knew in my heart and soul that this was bringing me down and deteriating all the work I had done. So I told him that I can not handle the guilt trips about moving and watching him be sad. That idf I stayed I would probably end up in a mental institute which was true. I am proud of myself big time bit this lingering on waiting for a 3 day notice is hard. I still dont know where I am going to stay. All I know is I need to make it back to California to get medical. They dont have coverage in oregon for people on Social security. All my female parts are spasming constantly and it makes it hurt all up my back to. The muscles around them are so tight that the doctor said that she could play guitar with them. I cant afford the medecine of the care that is needed. Surgery is going to have to happen. I am discouraged big time but I know my surviver instinct will come out.       I am in limbo and feel lost. I just have to follow my own advise and take one thing at atime so that its not overwhelming.