O.K., so here it is Monday....yeah!!  I was supposed to go over to the home I shared with my stbx and pack some more things, but I decided not to.  Reason #1:  My mom had a bad weekend and needed me.  Reason #2:  I am not at his beck and call anymore.  Reason #3:  He kicked me out, if he can't look at my stuff without feeling guilty...who cares!  Reason #4:  I just didn't want to see him or listen to his voice.  Reason #5:  I just didn't want to see him or listne to his voice (I know that is reason #4 too, but I REALLY didn't want to see him!)I took care of my mom all weekend while her husband worked on the roof.  We had a tornado come through about two months or so back and he is fixing what was torn up and ripped off.  He can only work on it when I am there, so it has been a slow process since I work all day.  She was in a lot of pain yesterday and couldn't get comfortable.  Poor thing. I went to the rodeo Saturday night to watch my daughter sing again, it was great!  I love listening to her.  My stbx was always telling her to shut and quit singing.  I am so glad we aren't there anymore.  I can see now the effect he has had on her and it breaks my heart.  He never bonded with her, she could never do anything right in his eyes.  At least now, his opinion doesn't mean anything!!!  He can no longer put her down and now she is surrounded by nothing but love and support.Isn't is funny how sometimes you can't see somthing right in front of you?  I guess that is why they say hind sight is 20/20.  I am just glad I can see now that I am better off without him and his selfish-ness.  I am looking forward to getting everything in order here and moving away.  One day...Happy Monday to all!!!!  Have a great week.