Hi, Just thought I would write a little something tonight.  I am having a tough time being happy lately.  ALthough my weight loss isn't so bad (70 lbs) the rest of my life remains the same.  My husband is always lecturing me on something.  We always have a power struggle going on.  The worst thing is when he throws it up in my face that I go to counseling.  I suffer from depression and anxiety attacks.  He also loves to tell me that my operation has changed me.  Yeah well I say for the better, I'm nobodys puppy dog.  I love him dearly and don't understand why he throws up counseling in my face.  He nay be a lot stronger person than I am, but mentally I have it all over him.  That alone shows you how mad I am at him.  I am not going to let his insecurities about my weight bother me.  Has anyone else ever experienced this problem?  Please let me know.Nal