Thisclose to sitting down with a divorce attorney today.  Told the wife to give me two weeks to clear out of the house.  Then she tells me that she has a Monday appointment with Pastor K.Endured hours of her withering criticisms and accusations last night (i.e. I married her for the tax write off).  It ended with her literally kicking me out of bed.  I left out of concern for our son, who was sleeping between us.  This marks the second night I've spent on the couch in the past three weeks.  She has no idea of the damage that she is doing.  If we ever get past the main issue that caused all of this, it will take years of therapy before I can get past the consequences that are rolling out of her reaction to it.