WHAT A LESSON!  Walking down my lot - it's a hill - I suddenly remembered myself as a kid.  Smart, VERY determined, pretty blunt and exceedingly clear about what was fair. I thought my husband gave me strength - true but not totally - he provided me with a basis to be myself.  So - in fact the strength was there and is still here.  Brave or just stubborn - not sure - but they both work.  Just like the child above - I can trudge with extreme intent:)  Thank you for helping me see me again. Suze - thank you so much for the card - it gives me an avenue into my strength.