(I can take my sunglasses off!!!) I can stop feeling stupid and stop hiding in my house. The American Bar Association, in its online info, suggests that people do exactly what I did - gather data/evidence and send it to the neighbors that I have a conflict with -  and then I get to "warn" them:)  So I have done nothing bad or wrong -  I am just getting the facts straight for them (as if they didn't already know the facts - they knew - they just thought I didn't know ....)  I didn't realize it until just now but I was feeling like a bad girl for having confronted these people by sending my information statement to them.  Wow!!  Well - I'm going to continue gathering up my facts and send them off to these lovely people.  <- lovely people I feel so validated!!   I don't think I would have gotten to the end of that first goal without you all.  Thank you so much for staying with me on this - I was really faltering when I first started with my project of sending out this information to these people - and I was right  all along but without your encouragement I don't know that I would have been able to stay with it. Wow.