Goodness. What a day!! I smiled almost all day long. Though there's a twist... the same guy that caused all my pain, was the very same to take it all away. I spent the day with him today, or at least most of the day. Just being near him made me smile, and genuinely happy. I know that soon this happiness will have to be contained, he still wishes another, but is it so wrong to want to be around him? TO be constantly near the one person who can make me smile, and be so happy. I feel like Im flying. Just a hug from him made me want to never leave, the simple sight of him made me smile. Am I still in love with this man? Can I be? Maybe that is why it huts so badly to think of him with another, maybe that's why I get so angry at the mentioning of her name... maybe? Though, Im not sure what to feel, or do. Should I continue to be close to him because he makes me happy? Or should I back off and go away because I know he's going to ask someone else to be his? Gosh Im confused!! HELP!!!!
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I\'m glad your smiling
Be careful - and take things slow. He could be manipulating you, taking advantage of your feelings.
I would be careful not to get very close until and unless he knows for sure the other girl is history.
Otherwise, you are likely to get hurt all over again.
I can understand what you are going through. If we are with the people we love, we just forget everything else.
Keep a healthy distance between you and this guy until he makes a decision on who or what he wants. Don\'t set yourself up for pain. you don\'t need that!! Besides there\'s lots of fish in the sea. But as i tell my daughter, 22, you should not ever feel you need a man in your life to make you feel complete. you need to feel whole and happy on your own first. Be very,very,careful. Be well.
Ooohh, tricky situation. Be on guard, it really sounds like you are setting yourself up to get hurt, but you know best. I\'m here if you need me.
hmm, this is a tough one, because no matter how much we tell ourselves that we will be careful not to get hurt, we always do. there\'s nothing wrong with a little smiling, but i agree with the others... careful, careful. it\'s hard being alone, particularly when you care about someone you\'re not quite *with*. the areas are really grey here, just don\'t get lost in all that fog. please keep up your happy self without him, regardless of what he does.