My husband left me back in may completely out of the blue said he wasnt happy living in the family home,the day he left he moved in with a younger women (someone he works with) and my perfect world was shattered id had no idea he was going to leave there were no signs.Since leaving ive had a lot of stress what with the children and sorting my self out which  was hard but ive managed and for the first time in my life im my own person.Christmas was hard to cope with but we got through it.This year im planning to take my children on holiday on my own for the first time which is scary but its something i can do on my own for my children.Im divorseing him which should all be sorted my march.