Well huh.  I know how unhealthy this is.  My shrink says it is literally albeit slowly killing me.   But I can't just say "get out".  It is her life she is an adult but I am partially responsible for her being here.  I know she loves me even if she's forgotten how to show it.  I am just tired but I still defend her against all attacks.  My daughter must be learning some very bad things watching her and us together.  The divorce made things worse.  I know what needs to be done and yet I simply can not do it.  My friends are gone and the family alienated.  I don't even think she likes me much less loves me.  I feel so weak but I wish she would just find someone new and pack the hell up!
6 long ass years