Yesterday my rowing coach told me that the head of the Queensland womens masters interstate 8 rowing coach, is head hunting me.He has heard I am going to Brisbane and wants me to row for him. Our coach asked if he should give him my number. I said yes. Cant hurt to see if that is the direction I want. It will be full on training etc but I love that. Yay!!!!!!Things are going my way.My friend online and I are still chatting although it got a little out of hand and he got a little sexual last night which spoilt it for me, he apologised this morning by sms. it is still fun, as their are no ties, and he sends me texts all day which make me laugh. That is good for me.Went to the office and the girls have confirmed Casey as one of his conquests as well. She came in one day and said that mark told her he would do her breasts the next day, and then mark came out and suggested that his colleague do her as she was in his social circle and it would not be right. Social circle my arse, he was screwing her. And that was in May of this year, but he had known her for ages. When I mentioned her last night to him, he said that it was so long ago he could not remember!And I have the phone records and see that Jo had surgery in April, and he was still calling her in June and of course last week. I see on the week before he went to Berlin, where he was in turmoil about Rowena and I had walked in on he and her in the carpark together, he phoned Rowena and talked for 8 mins, then straight to Jo and talked for 5 mins and then me, all in half an hour of each other. I only got the June, July bill, so will have to get more. Cannot see Casey's number on that, but that means nothing as he more than likely has her work number.And to top that off, Mark is phoning all day yesterday again assuming I will take him back. Then in the next breath threatening me with getting a court order if necessary to see his sons or taking 3 months stress leave of absence if his kids dont phone him each second day. Pray tell, what can I do about that? How can I get his kids to talk to him?And when I put it plainly - that he had been trying to sustain a wife, a family, relationships with his kids, a mistress and a number of other fuck buddies and no wonder it broke down, he just hung up. What the fuck does he expect?And then I ask about how Rowena thinks of this. Oh, she does not know, she assumes he is in a committed relationship with him. The stupid, stupid girl. She is in way over her head. But it is a way out for her, so that is her motive. I am not going to tell her. I sent her an email yesterday - her birthday, telling her that it was not me turning his kids against him as he tells everyone, but that it was his deplorable behavior that did it for itself. I reminded her I was never the one to treat him poorly, only supported him. And gently reminded her that he had behaved deplorably over the past year especially that I know of. More than she is aware of and more than I am prepared to disclose to her, but enough that I have walked away and am staying away. She can live in her trusting ideal world with him and take it all. She will learn. She does not check up on him -stupid girl.He is as restless as he ever was, perhaps more.Then I think about the time in London when Braden took me outside for a while and kissed me. I think it was a decoy for Mark to get a girls phone number, for I remember later on getting an email (or coming across one) on marks computer, asking whether so and so had contacted him or whether he got her number, something like that. Disgusting man.I am doing better.I have agreed also to meet someone called Rob tomorrow night for a drink. In a public place as I am a bit wary. More than likely after sex, but I will not let him have an inch as I am not into that right now. I prefer to banter online with Paul.