So, the woman has not pulled out of the contract she put on my house but has not yet applied a deposit. The 5 day cooling off period has ended and as she has signed a legal document, we are now entitled to sue her for the deposit amount which is $260,000. If she has not organized a pest and building inspection by Friday which is her given date for the same, then we can sue her for the entire purchase price of $2.6 million.Lets see how that goes. My luck she will have no money, but at least I will be able to get to the reason for her behavior.Mark is a changed man again from Monday night. I confronted him about the pictures on the cd and asked him just how he thought he could tell me he wants to get back with me and at the same time sit in his unit and listen to their favourite music whilst looking at pictures of her. I told him it was unacceptable and that I would not go on with him. Of course he insisted on staying and threw the disc into the garbage. I am not stupid, and I guess he has others.I told him point blank to stop talking to our staff about his woes, as they are all women and they eventually relay what he says to me as they think he is a prick. Plus they are staff, not friends. He begged to differ with a few of them and I said again, NO. He has to stop and let them get on with their jobs or they will all leave. He took that quite well really, as usually he gets up me for telling him as he says "what to do". Someone has to as he is hopeless at it himself.I thought a while ago, and was encouraged by others, to let him make is own decisions and deal with situations himself without me interfering and calming things over. That is what i have done in effect for 2 years. And look at the right mess he is in.He does not have simple common sense.I again mentioned how he holds slut on a pedestal all the time no matter what she does. He made the nasty unthoughtful comment "well, my time in Singapore with her was the best time I have had that I can remember".Wondered why I got upset at that. Changed it to over the past few years. Still bad. Then wanted to stay over so he could have sex with me.In the end I let him stay over, but I refused sex. I could not do it after that sort of comment. It was just so hurtful and when I think about it, yes, it is just words, but so disgustingly cruel words. He woke at 4am and pestered me for sex and lay awake for nearly an hour doing the same but I stood my ground. If he wants a good, soft and caring relationship with me, then show me the same. I hate him for saying that shit.I dont know how it will ever be ok for me here.I had a nice day at golf and played to my handicap which was good. Am going rowing too. My diet is hard work as I am sick of meat and no sweets, but I have lost one kilo and only need to lose another or so, so have to be strong. I would kill for sugar!I have got back into exercise as well as planned and am doing something daily if not twice daily again now. That is also part of my plan.I am very keen to do a womens travel group trip to Iceland and have joined their organization as they take people from all over the world, even though it is based in the usa. It is for women only and small groups. A good way to meet others and have fun as a single. The Iceland tour looks fantastic.