So, last night at about midnight, the slut started phoning Mark again, while he was in bed with me. He hung up on her a number of times and then took her call at my insistence and I heard him, however pathetically, tell her that it was over and that they had already made that decision. She was getting stuck into him in the background. I suspect he has been still talking to her and leading her on even though they have broken it off. I know him too well.Anyway, then he kept hanging up on her as she called him and so she began ringing me. Told me she was pregnant. That was horrific. Then she stopped taking either of our calls. He sent her a few messages one of which was to tell her that he was not at home. Same old same old.I think he was secretly proud of himself and pleased despite the crap that it would bring to his life. Imagine the damage it would do to his own kids. His daughter goes to the same uni as her and she would have to see her pregnant with her dads kid each day. And I know they would disown him as a father if he did that. He would throw away his own first kids. And there is no prenup so his bastard child would be entitled to the same of his inheritence as his own first three kids. Something needs to be set up to stop that.And i would have to leave town as the shame of him getting another pregnant would be too much to bear
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OOPS. Sorry about that last one. It has been so long since I have been on here, hahaha, I forget how to do this. Anywho, just had to give you much respect and much love at how you handled and are handling this woman. I think I\'d be in jail. Or at least charged with an assaultive offense. It goes against everything I believe, but I sadly, can be very-- undiplomatic at times. I also wanted to ask what a \"uni\" was? Her daughter goes to the same oh- university? Duh. Well, you are definitely in my thoughts and prayers and please keepme up to date on \"her\" and this situation. I would not wish this on my worst enemy, but sometimes it is comforting to know you are not alone. Luckily for me, (and for the other woman or women) they do not contact me, and he doesn\'t live here, as we are going thru with the divorce, so I don\'t know the goings on with him and his adulterers. Take care, hon.
Hey- where did that link in my last message come from? I did not put that there, it must have been because of the word I typed after it. I am not going to type it again. But I just wanted to add I didn\'t make that mess up there!!
It is rather a sick complicated relationship I am in I agree. In my heart, I know it will never be the same and I really dont know how I can even think to go on with it. But there is that part of me that keeps thinking he will come good and be ok as he has been before. Then the see-saw of leopards not changing spots.
I am not thinking about it today, I am thinking of the fact that my house is sold!!!