Today I have organized about 14 people to go out on our boat so it will be a day surrounded by friends. Apparently the whales are passing so I hope we see some.We have a huge boat which cost us a fortune and that Mark brought 'to pull us back together to give us more in common" but of course which he has screwed his mistress on, so I dont really associate it with fun. Nonetheless, it is there, the sun is shining and I should use it until I cannot after settlement as I dont want any part of it as it just eats thousands of dollars each day by sitting there.It will piss Mark off to know that I am taking a huge group of my friends out on it as he always had trouble getting people (friends) to go with him. One of his attractions to me is that people flock to me so I have a huge number of friends and he is more or less a loner and can not readily form friendships of his own. He loved that I would make us friends which would rub off onto him. Apparently the mistress is a loner too.I have got through the last night of them sleeping together in Singapore so that is good. I know it will be hard the two of them being here in this small town together, but in reality, they have already slept together numerous times here so it wont be any different and certainly not as hard as imaging them in a plush hotel room away from the stresses of life and family screwing their heads off at my expense.They leave to come home tonight.I weakened yesterday and sent Mark an email. Just one. Explained in clear terms whyI felt his behavior was bad and illustrated it by the example of what he did Saturday in speaking to me and encouraging me and all the time having arranged to meet her the same night in Singapore. I thought by putting it in writing he would at least see the error of his ways, but I know he wont. I tried so many times in the past to get him to see that he was doing wrong and he never changed, just got worse. Anyway, I just went on to explain that he had changed and it was not only me who saw it but also his mates, and that I thought it a result of following a path of deception and that it had brought out some indecent behavior that he had lost the ability to control thanks to her encouraging it. Maybe it will hit some nerve deep down. dont know.And dont even know what difference it would make anyway, as how on earth could I ever expect to have him back now anyway?I also came across some paperwork for another investment at the office yesterday that I knew nothing about. dont know how far he has proceeded, but I can see that he has obtained bank approval for another huge loan. And it is to buy a unit near our house (the house that I own and may move to) in Brisbane. I dont know what he is playing at, as I will not accept him and his mistress living just up the road from me if I choose to move away from him here and into my house in Brisbane.Plus, I am a shareholder of that company that he is buying it in, and surely I have a right to know what is going on? He deliberately set me up not as a director years ago, I only found this out a while ago.If I am logical, he will not be able to buy it anyway, as firstly I will get my solicitor to stop it, and our joint accountant will be unwise professionally to advise him to proceed if we are undergoing a divorce settlement. In any divorce settlement, he will need a huge loan to pay me out and that will certainly stop him from doing much else for while anyway.