I tried to stay out of it and I tried not to let it bother me and I tried to learn from it and move on.......
It didn't work.
So I went to a couple of other boards that I thought I could fit in on and continue to work on my personal growth and self-awareness while hopefully being able to help some others along the way........
But she's EVERYWHERE! She's a like a virulent DISEASE! She's infecting the whole bloody site! Lisa's been vilified for trying to do something about it and now I've developed a check-list to determine the authenticity of the "personalities" I read about.......
and don't kid yourself, lizzie whoeverthehellsheis is out there using other names and other "backgrounds" and is sucking others into her lie of the moment: for attention, support and whatever perverse sort of pleasure that started all this up in the first place.
Frankly, I don't care what you think of me for saying this and I'm not interested in "forgive and forget" when it's being applied to the perpetration and encouragement of AN ONGOING LIE! This belittles EVERYONE who has come to this site in pain hoping to find support and understanding.....
I believe I have friends here and I will continue to communicate with them if they so choose. For the time being, I'm not going to make any decisions about whether or not I will continue to make journal entries on the same scope as I used to......
For me, the bottom line is that the site isn't really as safe as it used to be and the people in charge have decided to let that be ok...........
So I'm going to go ponder that for awhile...........
............. and I really think you should too.
It didn't work.
So I went to a couple of other boards that I thought I could fit in on and continue to work on my personal growth and self-awareness while hopefully being able to help some others along the way........
But she's EVERYWHERE! She's a like a virulent DISEASE! She's infecting the whole bloody site! Lisa's been vilified for trying to do something about it and now I've developed a check-list to determine the authenticity of the "personalities" I read about.......
and don't kid yourself, lizzie whoeverthehellsheis is out there using other names and other "backgrounds" and is sucking others into her lie of the moment: for attention, support and whatever perverse sort of pleasure that started all this up in the first place.
Frankly, I don't care what you think of me for saying this and I'm not interested in "forgive and forget" when it's being applied to the perpetration and encouragement of AN ONGOING LIE! This belittles EVERYONE who has come to this site in pain hoping to find support and understanding.....
I believe I have friends here and I will continue to communicate with them if they so choose. For the time being, I'm not going to make any decisions about whether or not I will continue to make journal entries on the same scope as I used to......
For me, the bottom line is that the site isn't really as safe as it used to be and the people in charge have decided to let that be ok...........
So I'm going to go ponder that for awhile...........
............. and I really think you should too.
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Hey- does anybody know of a site where I can go to continue my journaling if I decide I want to take it somewhere else?
THANK YOU VERY MUCH MY LADY!!!!!!!!!! I\'LL START LOOKING FOR ANOTHER SITE, JUST IN CASE I CAN\'T GET RID OF HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ((((((((((((((((((((HUGE, GIGANTIC, HUGS)))))))))))))))))))) LISA
Thank you, Janine! I completely agree that there is no \"forgive and forget\" as this is an ongoing perpetration. It is not \"safe\" to share one\'s reality and pain amidst this deceit and I don\'t understand why this is being allowed to continue. (((((((Janine)))))))
I\'m glad you\'re supporting Lisa... she has been treated badly for outing izzy lizzy... the reason I gave her a disrespectful nickname is because I don\'t like what she is doing... If I choose to forgive her... that\'s about me... not her.... and since trying to give her the benefit of the doubt hasn\'t worked... I\'ve just been doing my best to ignore her... she doesn\'t seem to care if we live or die... and I don\'t feel much different about her... that\'s wrong... maybe... but that\'s how it is... I\'m going ahead with my heart on my sleeve just because that\'s who I am... and I really need to like me... so I\'m gonna do that too... I\'m happy today... who knows how I\'ll feel tomorrow... or even thirty minutes from now... but for this moment... thank you God and all my friends and family. Love You Elissa
Although I detest and despise lizziewhoeverthehellsheis I\'m not nearly as frustrated with her as I am with the site managers. It is they who are in charge of protecting the rest of us from this fraud, it is they who warned Lisa about being banned and it is they who have elected to support lizziewhoever...........
On the other hand, it\'s quite likely that she, herself and whoeverelsesheis outnumber the rest of us.
In which case one could successfully argue that this was in fact, a democratic decision! :o-)
How can we be sure one is not a bs artist... I don\'t know... but if I think someone is... I\'m not going to write to them... nor will I worry about what they read of mine... heck it might open their heart someday... I hate to say it but I think there may be real real torment ahead for such and empty soul....
Yes, Janine, I think she may very well outnumber us!
It is good to avoid evil and seek the good. This site has provided many good friends invested in the healing of each other. Seems a shame to ban one who has done so much for so many.