I work for a transportation company. We specialize in the transportation of seriously mentally ill people. We take people to facilities who are in crisis situations, then once they are no longer in crisis we take them to their appointments for ongoing care. We pick up alcoholics and drug addicts and mentally ill people off the street and take them to detox or psychiatric urgent care. It was slow tonight so I entered my last name into the computer just to see what would come up. Right there in front of me was my dead son's name. I can't tell you how hard it was for me to look at this and keep my stuff together. Can you believe it took a coworker who has known me for 3 years to point out that this person was not my son. Wrong age and DOB. What's wrong with me. The moral of the story is... Don't go looking for things you don't want to find.