I'm nervous about tomorrow's appt w/ the transplant surgeon. This makes no sense. What's it gonna change? Jeff will still be dead. At least I will have my answers. I'm nervous to the point of almost being sick. Help. I'm nervous about tomorrow's appt w/ the transplant surgeon. This makes no sense. What's it gonna change? Jeff will still be dead. At least I will have my answers. I'm nervous to the point of almost being sick. Help.
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Dont be. Just breathe. Sometimes knowing is important. It helps answer some of the whys. Lots of hugs, Jake\'s mom, Kathy
Maybe you are having what our grief class coordinator calls a \"grief attack.\" Go to a place where you feel comforatable talking to your son and tell him how nervous you are or write him a letter telling him how nervous you are. You can still talk to him to draw comfort and understanding; his physical body went to the other side but his spirit lives on. And yes; remember to breathe! :-) Let me know if you need to talk! ((((Colleen))))
F.R.O.G.
wow... this is really helpful... I think the letter idea is great... I do hope you can get some comfort from the comments... I think they are both really great... We\'ll be thinking of you... Hugs Elissa
I will pray for you. God be with you and give you strength. Please let us know how it goes
Love you
Dawn jake\'s mom
HANG IN THERE HUN, GODS WITH YOU!!!!!!!! BIG HUGGS TO YOU IM PRAYING FOR YOU TOO
Try to just breath. It is clearly important to you to find out what went wrong so maybe finding out will help you heal.
Will be thinking of you. May God give you strenght. Hang on love lucille
You are all sooo sweet, I love you. I\'m sorry I can\'t make it to Charleston. I\'ll be thinking about you all tomorrow, 3:00mst, Please pray for me to not get so upset that I don\'t remember anything told to me. I was so upset at the funeral that I really don\'t even remember most of it.