‎"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity. It turns problems into gifts, failures into success, the unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings love for today and creates a vision for tomorrow."
A friend posted this on her facebook profile today, and I just wanted to share it.  I thought it was fitting for my current situation.  I am trying to be more positive and get back to the place where I am grateful for what I have, instead of constantly thinking about what I have lost and what might have been.  I want to have hope again.
I know so many women here on DS have the same struggle, and I hope this quote helps you as well!