Well, crap, crap, crap!!!!  I have an appointment with my doctor on the 2nd at 8:30 in OKC and my daughter has a court date on the 2nd at 9:30.  What am I gonna do?  I may have to testify on behalf of my grandchildren.  Crap!  I need to see my doc.  But my grandkids come first.  There is no way my two year old granddaughter should have to worry about where her next meal is coming from.  There is no reason why they should live in a house with rotting food, roaches, dirty diapers, and no clean clothes.  Not even for visitation. 
The last time I picked the kids up, this is what his house looked like. I had asked to use the bathroom, after all it is a five hour drive, and went into the house. I had no idea it would be so bad.  I went into the kids bathroom; I wasn't going into the masterbath in his room. 
There was dried shit on their toilet that looked like it had been there for days.  So of course I took pics with my phone.  Then I got my ass jumped by his mom for not asking permission.  And not giving him a chance to clean up.  Well hell!  Did she think our grandkids deserved to live like that.  Of course not she said.  So why was she mad at me?
I cant risk him getting the kids.  Guess doc appointment is out the window.