So far..

Well I have kept the no contact rule until yesterday...he had been calling me and leaving me messages, he wants me to sell a property we have back home and I don't want to because is close to my mom's.  So he called my job and had to talk to him, or rather listen to his cruel words.  My ex is very insiduos, he says: "No you don't have to sell it", and at the same time he sends buyers to my mom's house with offers.  When I asked him to please stop doing this he replies:  "You are nothing but a ho anyways" while he was still screaming  I hang up the phone on him.
I try to stay strong but after he insulted me I had to find a place to just cry.  I was at work and that is not a good thing, my boss says I should report him.  He is angry because he can't sell the property, is in both of our names, and the person who signs the paperwork at the housing and property division is my aunt!   Every sale of property, is a small city, has to be sign by her.  And she isn't sign in unless I give her the ok.  So since he is frustrated he keeps harrasing me with phone calls, since I dont answer him, he calls me at my job.  Now he wants me to stay until december,and if I had the money  I would move tomorrow, but if I stay I can save enough for a better place for both of us.
I am however very tempted to asked for a transfer at my job and move to a small place anyways.  But it will mean letting my daughter live with my ex, and I know that will be harmful to her.
I am trying to be strong, to find answers, am open to suggestions!!