OMG..........
Today i went for coffee with a couple of my close friends...and a few mintues later my mom and her "bf" walks in...she seems and says nothing..then awhile later she walks right beside my table to get a newspaper and says nothing...and i am looking at her and waiting for her to say something but she doesnt..omg..how can u be so cold to your own child......
Well to fill u in a bit...my mom has been dating this guy for over 3yrs..and since then we see her maybe twice a yher if we are lucky..she doesnt call or stop by to talk to us or the grandkids..i have 5brothers..and she only talk to like 2 of us..and those are the ones with no kids...her bf is a very weird person.controlling and such..like omg i could never imagine doing that to my kids..ever..i dont care how old they are..and no man will ever will make me do that...ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel so hurt and abandon.....OMG
Well to fill u in a bit...my mom has been dating this guy for over 3yrs..and since then we see her maybe twice a yher if we are lucky..she doesnt call or stop by to talk to us or the grandkids..i have 5brothers..and she only talk to like 2 of us..and those are the ones with no kids...her bf is a very weird person.controlling and such..like omg i could never imagine doing that to my kids..ever..i dont care how old they are..and no man will ever will make me do that...ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel so hurt and abandon.....OMG
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So sorry to hear that. It\'s true that people closest to you can hurt you the most. And it sure hurts a lot. Sometimes family members are not what we want them and need them to be. Sometimes they just disappoint us. I don\'t believe their intentions are to hurt us or cause us pain, but sometimes that\'s what happens. You\'re lucky to have 2 great kids, and they are very lucky to have you!
I am so sorry - that is so hurtful- I understand
That is so sad....I am sorry! My oldest son, Adrian has tried to see his dad off and on through the years! A few years back Adrian was working at McDonalds. His dad walked in with a girl. Adrian said, \"Shane (his dad)\"! Shane said....who are you? He didn\'t even know his own son! Sometimes it is better to be apart....I think the hurting isn\'t as bad! Hang in there hun! You have your kids and that\'s all that matters!
That\'s right....I understand how you feel....I\'m lucky that things are pretty good between me and my folks....but sometimes even your relatives will let you down....I\'ll hope things get better for you.
Tom B. aka Ihman
I\'m sosorry that your mum would do that it\'s probably the man that she is with he probably gets jealous which is very wrong!! I hope she will change cause that\'s not nice to do that to your own children!! No man would ever do that to me and i\'m glad i have an awesome man cause my kids love him as their stepdad!! Keep your head up and keep smiling cause someday your Mum will hopefully change and treat you right!! God bless you dear!! Hugs!! Shorty