1.  Rape-  I felt dirty, shameful, guilty, no trust in anyone, hated my body, felt the police supported the abuser, judged, statistic, no one cared for me, and wanted my abuser dead as well as myself.New thought:  This was not my fault, and God will judge those who have hurt me in my past.  I am free by the blood of the lamb!2.  Physical Abuse-  I felt like it was all my fault, wanted to be dead, shameful, no one to trust, hated my body, and depressed.New thought:  This was not my fault, and God will judge those who have hurt me in my past.  I am free by the blood of the lamb!3.  Verbal Abuse-  I felt guilty, shameful, wanted to be dead, and that no one cared for me.New thought:  This was not my fault, and God will judge those who have hurt me in my past.  I am free by the blood of the lamb!4.  Abandonment-  I felt like I was put on the back burner, not a priority, and guilty that it was all my fault.New thought:  This was not my fault, and God will judge those who have hurt me in my past.  I am free by the blood of the lamb!5.  Pride-  I felt stupid.New thought:  I am smart, and God loves me.6.  Money-  I felt poor because the person put money before me due to their lack of priorities.New thought:  I am rich in Christ Jesus my Lord.7.  Lies-  I felt I could not trust anyone, and that it was all my fault.New thought:  I can trust God, and it is not my fault.8.  Gossip-  I felt that I couldn't tell that person anything because it could spread around like wildfire due to a lack of trust.New thought:  I can trust God.9.  Those who broke confidentiality-  I felt that I could not trust that individual because of their lack of obeying the law and God as well as could not follow their example for future practice.New thought:  I can trust God.10.  Manipulation-  I felt I could not trust anyone because they will try to take advantage of me for their own selfish gain.New thought:  I can trust God.11.  Witholding of love-  I did not feel loved but betrayed because of me being a woman.New thought:  I am loved from God, and that is all that matters.12.  Lack of Responsiblity- I felt that the person was unable to take care of themselves, and needed constant guidance, when in reality they know how to take care of themselves, but have a terrible memory.New thought:  I am responsible for myself.13.  Lack of Consistency/Structure-  I felt that the person had no idea what they were doing, and desperately needed help or did not care about me to plan out their lessons or work day accordingly.New thought:  I am responsible for myself.14.  Namecalling-  I felt stupid, guilty, shameful, and that no one cared for me.New thought:  This was not my fault, and God loves me.15.  Bullied-  I felt insignificant, wanted to die, shameful, guilty, and could not trust that person.New thought:  This was not my fault, and I can trust God.Wow!  I feel so much better now.  I needed some time to deal with the feelings first before I actually wrote out the positives.Blessings!