If I set a goal,
I would feel obligated to attain it, and worried that I couldnt, and guilty if I wasnt, & that would stress me out, then I would have to join more groups to help me with that.
(he he) 
I found this, and liked it, so thought I would share it.
"Between you and every goal that you wish to achieve, There is a series of obstacles And the bigger the goal, The bigger the obstacles. Your decision to be, have and do something out of the ordinary Entails facing difficulties and challenges that are out of the ordinary as well. Sometimes your greatest asset is simply your ability to stay with it longer than anyone else." ~ Brian Tracy
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You know you\'re a paranoid case of psychopathic, don\'t you? You revel in your insanity... and then you have the nerve to call me nuts! Ha! Fie on you, my freind, for the insanity be mine, me own, the thing that warms me, and the thing that goes bump in the night. Lol, okay, I just lost it.... *wait, come back* nope, sanity\'s gone.... damn.... oh well, I probably won\'t even notice its absence.