A couple years ago, my girlfriend and her husband and I were out in the bar. A lot of other people came to sit with us. I knew none of them, because I hardly ever went out.

One of the guys told his wife that he was having an affair with me. ( apparantly she was not there.) he used my name, cause he knew no one would know me, at least thats what I think.

I dont know him, except his name, and only because his wife stalked me and left notes on my car. she knows where I live. I took the notes to the police. They opened a file, but everything died down.

Today, I saw one of her friends at the store, and she told me that this woman is still driving by my place and threatening to pay someone to hurt me. to slash my tires, and paint nasty words on my car.

And there is nothing I can do about it, cause the lady that told me, will not be a witness to the cops. I feel helpless, and I have to admit. frightened.

 I am a good person, I would'nt have an affair with someone else's man. I don't even date.

I guess, like all bad things, this too shall pass.