Ok so I went to bed but couldn't sleep. That means that my butt we'll be dragging. Maybe I can talk my daughter into going to a beach that is not as good but 45 minutes closer. Gees it sucks for her to have me as a mother. It's times like these that I want to climb into the hole of shame. On another note; I have to confront my sister about not telling him or I that she wanted him to drive an hour out and an hour back in the middle of the night. Grrrr. In fact she lead me to believe that she was coming to my house. He didn't get home till 2:30am. She knew what she was doing. Better yet she knows Steve is a nice guy/sucker. Grrrr. On this point I could use other peoples opinions…. I offered to take care of her dog for as long as she needed me to. I find that the dog is very noise and it pees & poops on my carpet. It has even peed on my bed. Grrrr. I knew that the dog messed other times, but thought that once he was stable here he would stop it. It has been to months now, and yesterday he peed in 2 spots and pooped in the living room. Even though I was very sick and could hardly move I cleaned it up. My sister has stayed here during most weeks, but she has only taken her dog out twice. Grrrr. She has only brought 1 small bag of food for it as well….. The dog is driving my husband, my son and my self nuts. We all want the dog gone. So my quarry is should I stick to my offer to my sister, or should I tell her to find some one else to take care of it?
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I could not have that in my house. I would have to tell her to make other arrangements for the dog. If she is not taking care of it maybe she needs to give it over to a shelter or someone that will love it and train it and take care of it. I know she is your sister and you may hurt her feelings, but is she not hurting yours with the way things are now? It is your home and if you and your family are uncomfortable with the arrangements in your home than it\'s time for a change.