not good
so i met a couple nice people at a local meetup group. met up with them the other night and one of them was such an ass i spent whole night sobbing like an idiot when i got home. withing 2 minutes of meeting us she said she would never have a friend like me cause i drink too much and drove and thats just stupid. so i said i didnt drink too much and was driving not even a mile down street to exs house. from that point on it only got worse. needless to say i lasted like ten minutes got up and left. now i dont wanna go to anymore group things. not sure why i lost it emotionally so bad. i scared the shit outta myself and got really really depressed. think she was correct i did drink more than i shouldve but why are people so damn cruel. was hoping to meet some nice safe people and took alot of courage for me to go to the meetup oh well life goes on. lost with my boys leaving soon
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That is pretty cruel. Even if she thought your behavior was a problem there are better ways to address it. Expressing concern for one. I am sorry you were treated that way. I probably would have left too. What is a meetup group? Big hugs, Take care.
on the north shore they have a lesbian meetup group that does different events. i went to cookout where there were about 40 women
That sounds intimidating. I probably would have been drinking too, I get wicked bad social anxiety. I commend you for going in the first place.