The following link will take you to an article that eloquently says what I have been saying for years, only without the angry bitterness and lack of tact **I** tend to use:
http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/
Scroll down until you get to this title:
Conservative Christians “with a heart for the homosexual” still don’t get it
 
Amen.  Enough of the "loving God" and "ultimate sacrifice" bull crap floating around on this particular "holy"day - especially since the message hasn't changed from "you're going to hell."