Place holder - I need to write a major entry about the nuances of coming out.  It isn't a one-time event, it's a lifelong process.  Nor is it an either/or situation.  Recent events at work have stirred up old baggage, fodder for a lot of thinking, thinking, thinking.  It's stuff that I need to articulate, and if I sit with it long enough I will probably find the words.  It's subtle, this thing I'm cogitating, overlaps other considerations, personal and professional, in ways that make it easy to be misunderstood.  It happens.