My friend was beat bad by her b/f when she was pregnant. She left for a while. Now she says she wants to go back to him. I've tried my best to talk her out of it, but she will not listen and swears he's gotten help and will not do it again. I am so scared for her and I don't know what to do!

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o is to keep warning her. like on oprah -when she talked about rihana and chris brown ( singers) and how he abused her. if he did it once he will do it again. or like ike and tina turner - what\'s love got to do with it. she doesn\'t want to end up like these couples or worse. possibly dead. if she doesn\'t listen then encourage her to at least take self - dense (karate) classes. it will give her strength and help her defend herself and her child. convince her that this is not a proper environment to bring a child into. if there is an abusive person in their life they need to get away. otherwise the child will see it and think it is okay to abuse women or people. children can sense things and know or at least get an idea of what is happening. you don\'t want your child brought up in an abusive family. tell her these things. make sure she takes a karate class if she still doesn\'t listen. she needs confidence and strength if she is going to stick it out. but convince her as much as possible and get evidence. take pictures of all of her bruises and tell her to call the police if he acts violent so he can calm down. its better if he goes to jail so he can calm himself down rather than take it out on her or do worse.

good luck and pray for her too. she could use it. it hope this helps. another thing, i forgot, find a website and see if you can find a support group for her to go to for abused women. if she talks to people there it might help her as well. take to one and go with her to see. she might change her mind about being with him.