I am feeling better today. We haven't argued today. We had a lot of fun with the kids tonight. We turned on music and danced around the room with them. it was fun and they loved it. We finally got the boys a bunk bed. I think we have been fighting cuz we are both undera lot of stress and we get overwhelmed and take it out on each other. As soon as the kids go to bed we are going to spend some much needed time alone.