I am depressed again. I am overweight and I know I need to lose weight, but I can't get myself motivated. Then my husband gets mad and says stuff like, "that's sad." That doesn't motivate me it depresses me more. Then he wonders why I don't want to do anything. He is overweight too and says it's my fault he can't lose it because I will not go out and walk when he wants to. He is a damn adult. He can walk by himself. He doesn't need me to hold his hand. So it's his own fault!