I am so frrstated. My husband and I are fighting AGAIN! We have been fighting a lot lately. I don't understand it. I am starting to feel better. So why are we now fighting all the time? I think he expects too much out of me. Maybe he's right. Maybe I don't help out as much as I should. I don't really know. I just feel like he doesn't appreiate what I do accomplish. It's really hard for me and he doesn't seem to understand that. He will be mean to me and then when I'm on the brink of leaving he kisses up and apologizes. He will say, "I am just frustrated." Well, how does he think I feel. I deal with the same things and I have emotional problems on top of that. Sometimes I really want to leave, but I just can't. I do love him. And when were not fighting things are great. It's just when we both are feeling stressed we take it out on each other.
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It is very common when you both are stressed out to fight.Hang in there and I hope that everything works out for you.
maybe you need to to some where you two can be alone for a while, like go to the park or something like that. and talk for hrs till every thing is out. you may talk some and not say anything for awhile then talk some more.talk abought the good, bad and weather. if this dose not work try have him see some one with you but not your psych doctor. he will feel like your doctor is on your side. it is not true but he will feel that any way
I hope everything gets going better for you.