I've been trying to plan a family vacation for this summer, but I know it's just dreaming. Even if we had the money to go we could never get a long that long. My oldest child doesn't act right for his age, my middle child throws crazy tantrums, the baby is spoiled and wants held 24/7 and fusses if she's not, then we get frustrated and argue because were stressed. I wish we could go back to the days it was just the two of us. Sure we fought, but nothing like we do now that the kids are in the picture. We get mad at them and of course you can't take it out on them, I wouldn't dream of it, so we take it out on each other. Does anyone have this problem? Are we just a big dysfunctional family?