Am i worthy to ask for help??? HOW WORTHY??...HOW MUCH CAN I ASK FOR IN TERMS OF HELP?? HOW FAR WILL YOU GO? .(1)....AM I WORTHY ENOUGH TO WAKE YOU UP AT 3:30 AM BECAUSE I AM GONNA SABOTAGE MY DIET AND I DON'T WANT TO?? HOW SERIOUS IS THAT ANYWAY?? (2)..... IS IT AS IMPORTANT AS A SOBER ALCOHOLIC WHO'S GONNA TAKE A DRINK?? (3).......OR THE PERSON WHO IS AFRAID TO DRIVE HOME FROM THE BAR DRUNK BUT NOT SURE IF HE/SHE SHOULD WAKE UP A FRIEND? ...WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE??....WHAT NEED IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANOTHER??? CONSIDERING ALL OF OUR FATES ARE LOST ANYWAY IT MAKES ME WONDER IF ANYTHING SHOULD BE GIVEN ANY SIGNIFICANCE AT ALL .....HMMM....I SUPPOSE WE ALL WANT TO CARRY THE ILLUSION OF IMMORTALITY WITH US, AND WE ALL PRETEND THE END DOESN'T EXIST, SO THEN, LIVING WITH THE LIE OF OMMISSION (THRU DENIAL OF OUR FATE) I BELIEVE SOME PARAMETERS MUST BE SET!! YES....WE MUST HAVE RULES, AND, BOUNDARIOUS, TO KEEP ALL ILLUSIONS IN PLACE AND TO FURTHER OUR USELESS GOALS (EVEN THE ONES ABOUT LOSING WEIGHT, STAYING ALIVE, HAVING A LIFE AND STUFF LIKE THAT, ETC. ETC.). I AM OPEN AND ENCOURAGE ALL INPUT, THANKS!
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oh harry, why wouldnt thou be worthy;)
You are worthy just because WE say so
everyone experiences their own problems in life. To trivialize their struggle by comparing their problems to anothers is unfair and unjust. If your demon is eating, and you need a friend to stop you, you are okay to go ahead and call them at 0330 in the morning. and 0345, and so on. The only time you lose power over your progress is when the problem becomes something you admire, and you begin to trivialize others. Other than that, you deserve help and respect for trying to conquer that which you have seen as a problem with yourself.