ok, im in confusion again,,,,with robert,,,again. last night i tried talking to him. but he is pretty much shut down. i guess i am too. i don't know if maybe i just want to get out of this relationship or what. he gets home after 9 every night. he is working and we only see each other on sundays. i am footing all the bills until he gets his attorney and court stuff out of the way (1 year) after getting yet another dui in april while we were broken up. i just don't know if i should keep helping him. ive done this before (five times) and i am tired. tired of being alone, broke and worried.
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the answer to that is no make him step up and help himself and be a responsible adult what your being is an enabler and if he knows you\'ll rescue him everytime he will continue running back expecting you to do everything for him Yo its time to think of yourself and do what is best for you not robert.Hugs,Kim
You really have to think of yourself. If you are not taking care of you how can you take care of anybody else. He is a grown man. Needs to learn how to take care of himself. Hugs