Yesterday I had an issue with a co-worker, him and i have gone head to head before. This was the senario: Last week i was working on a project with him, well yesterday, he asked me about it and my response (as usual) was memory loss. I seem to have this affect when i am in a certain situation. Of course his reactions was, what did you forget? you have that airy look, stop it, you know i don't like that! and telling another co-worker "she doesn't remember and when she does remember she forgets". He is a has a very strong personality and i like working with him, but i have the same reaction and response to him as i did to robert and to my father. How can i change that about me?

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Sometimes I have a blank like that when questioned (especially if they are on my left side).

You might say, \"I don\'t have instant recall. Could we use email so I can track our progress? I promise to have answers for you by EOD/Noon/etc.\"
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I did it, this morning when he got to work, i was pleasant as ususal. We were in a good rapport, i had to ask him a ques about a project we worked on yesterday and when i asked HE KINDA HESITATED
deleted_user
deleted_user

I did it, this morning when he got to work, i was pleasant as ususal. We were in a good rapport, i had to ask him a ques about a project we worked on yesterday and when i asked HE KINDA HESITATED
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sorry i hit the add icon too soon....any way...so i said \"are you being AIRY?? come on you know i don\'t like that\" We both kinda laughed and kept working. I think I got my point accross.