QUESTION OF THE WEEK:
Why do I attract the wrong men? Men that have a record, violent background, substance abuse overall jerks? The seem nice until they start talking.
Why do I attract the wrong men? Men that have a record, violent background, substance abuse overall jerks? The seem nice until they start talking.
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The same reason I attract women that what to screw me over.. If we keep looking in the same place for love, we will alway get the same result.. I don\'t know if you figure it out let me know I\'m so with u. Just know this I\'m raising three boys not to do any of that..
Who have served as significant male figures in your life... we \"gravitate\" toward what is familiar, or presented to us on a constant basis, unless we break away and seek that which is best. The Lord Bless you!
Good morning to you yolanda,hun was your father present in your growing up years?Is he present now?I think if you don\'t have that influence in your life and you never felt loved by the man who helped bring you into the world that is often when bad choices are made when it comes to the men you are choosing,but I suggest that you stay away from them because in the end it spells out disaster and trouble and hurt and heartache for you.I care girl you know that and I am here for you always.Have a great day smile for me and hang in there,Hugs,Kim
One of the guys that approached me is a friend of my sister, i never would have thought of him in that way, but he spelled it out. Said he had a bad history, i just listened. It is way to soon for me to even consider talking to someone much less being in anykind of relationship. My question still stands....WHY DO THESE TYPE OF PEOPLE GRAVITATE TOWARDS ME? The other gentleman is a work associate although you\'d never suspect he has ties that I don\'t need or want. I don\'t know if i look any different than i did 2 months ago, but i have had several interested parties approach me. Thank for all the advise. I appreciate everyone\'s honesty. As far as love...i know that i am not bitter considering all the scrap i\'ve been through. i actually have a good out look on life and i know one day i will have a wonderful relationship that does not include violence or abandonment.