I experienced incredible feelings of accomplishments this weekend. I was washing dishes looking out the window and i realized that my children are all adults on their own and i am washing dishes in my own kitchen. No one to tell me what to do, yell at me, call me names or hit me anymore. I had just a moment of peace and completeness. I know on day i will fall in love again and be in a different place. But for right now, i can sleep, play, go places, have company, wash dishes, take walks, take long baths, read all i want. Stop at stores that i want to visist, be spontaneous, search, reject, plan...on and on. I had random thoughts of peace and tranquility! And i enjoyed every moment of it.
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Being In the Us Army we call that freedom enjoy it because life is short have a wonderful Day
Your Friend and reservist Don
Hooray for a good day!
I am happy for you having a good day feeling some peace of mind and knowing that you will again fall in love don\'t be in a rush though hun and demand resect and to be treated with pride and dignity,don\'t go after the men who are in and out of jail,woman beaters,substance abusers,druggies,don\'t you settle for just anything nor anyone you are a good person and deserve to be treated like a Queen,your home is your castle ,don\'t let any man control you oh yeah don\'t be with one who is posessive either spells violent behavior from the get go and in some cases woman end up murdered because these men control freaks don\'t understand it\'s over I am through with you,I don\'t want to be with you,leave me alone,many stalk and watch your comings and goings,so hun my best advice to you is take your time weed out the bad ones and be with a winner.Hugs and have a good day,Kim
SOFTBALLGIRL-you are definately right, i am not getting involved with ANYONE, especially violent crazy people. But that does not mean that there are people out there that are attracted to me for a variety of reasons. I want to find out what in my outward appearance makes men in negative catefories even think that i would consider even looking their way. Thanks Kim for your great support.