why do i even put myself in ridiculous situations? i went to see my mother during my lunch hours and it did not go very well. she and a co-worker mad some not nice comments. i am very sensitive right now and i feel like shit now. i just can deal right now. i am using all my energy to stay sane and free. then i told my son that we need to pay the rent and he flat out said, i won't have any money after i get paid, 200 goes to my atty and 175 goes for an assessment. I WAS SPEECHLESS. Here i am taking him to and from work, supporting him while he gets on his feet and taking 2 days of my vacation time off to care for my mother and that is the response i get. i am so hurt....i am just tired. tired of it all.
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yeouxleigh,
It\'s time for some serious tough love with your son. If what he makes won\'t pay for the bills there-then tell him to get a second job or find somewhere else to lay his head. I\'m like you, I would have been SPEECHLESS too! Especially at how much your helping him out.
I\'m sorry your Mom and co-worker hurt your feelings and brought you down. You don\'t deserve that! You have worked really hard to get out of a bad situation and stand up for yourself! I think in spite of it all that your doing a terrific job. You just need help from your son, and understanding from your Mom!
Just know you always have us here at DS. We will always listen, help with advice, encourage you, cry and laugh with you. But never hurt you. You have a safe haven too always come to ok .
HUGS,
Donna
I\'m sorry honey.... hang in there... crappy things happen and there is nothing we can do but, bitch about it and let it got! My two favorite things! : )
I\'m sorry honey.... hang in there... crappy things happen and there is nothing we can do but, bitch about it and let it go! My two favorite things! : )
THANKS!! you guys have been my strength when no one else was there. you all are right, my son has to wake up and do his part, or get movin!! I have worked hard to get to this point and i am not loosing this battle. i will find a way to get thru but my family does need to be more understanding. they see me as strong and resourceful, but that does not mean that i am not in need of supports. love you guys. yo.