How can I out do myself during these changes in my life? Lease instead of rent my apartment then next year buy a condo instead of leasing an apartment. Start saving $50.00 a month instead of no savings. Think big/Plan Big instead of making attainable goals, step outside of my safety net. Adding people to my life, instead of keeping the walls around me. Plan a vacation for myself, instead of wishing that someone someday will take me on one. Stop whining instead, take action, update my life plan and challenge myself.