disengage..that is my word for the week. that is what i need to do at this stage of leaving him. although i have physically left him, i am still "engaged" in the relationship.

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deleted_user

you sound so sweet
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deleted_user

Oh how that is such a great word... trying to use it myself... and that is so hard. Not being around him helps of course as I can\'t really do anything else but try to move on. Keep talking to yourself (sounds funny I know), and telling yourself positive things like this... it has to help in the end... just has to!
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It will take time for the emotional stuff to go away. You are doing great. Keep doing the deal.