I'm walking that Contemplation/Action line bordering on calling him for help. My ex raised my kids from my former marriage, and so many times I have "had" to call him for with. Like I said in my previous entry, my adult children still need me. My daugher (19) is moving this weekend and the first thing that pops in my head is call Robert...
It's ridiculous, i don't want to go there, I just want to get through this once and for all.
I don't want to need him. I know they say this stage require 6 months of steady resistance to going back in order to get the maintenance stage, Its just so hard.
It's ridiculous, i don't want to go there, I just want to get through this once and for all.
I don't want to need him. I know they say this stage require 6 months of steady resistance to going back in order to get the maintenance stage, Its just so hard.
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I didn\'t call him!!! But it feels like i am still being punished even i my dreams. I resisted every temptation to ask him for help, and believe me we needed it. But we did it all ourselves, from moving the everything from an upstairs apartment, to driving a diesel/standard huge truck to moving everything to another upstairs apartment. We did it.