I heard someone say the other day, don't risk anything you are not willing to loose. I guess i truely was willing to loose him. My children and his are connected as step brothers & sisters so i know one day we will bump into each other. I just want to be strong and stay away from him. After 10 years its finally over. I will stay on my side of town and concentrate on going on with my life. I'm almost finished reading "The Best Awful, Carrie Fisher" it pretty good, I can relate to the character.