Oka, I lost all my other info, anyway, he is putting pressure on me again to move back in. But I know how this chapter ends. I need to keep my eye on the prize...and the prize for me is freedom and independance. Basically, he is financially strapped right now and he "needs" me. don't get me wrong he does take care of me when he is working, but the pressure is on and he's been off work for a couple of months. Listen to me making excuses for him...it's the train the dog syndrome... give, yank, give, yank, yank, yank, yank, give, yank, give, yank, yank, yank, yank, yank, yank, yank, yank, yank, yank, yank, yank, give.....Does anyone understand that pattern?