well i keep on coming on line with no luck at all in meeting up with friends but to keep you all up to date, ive spent the day cleaning out a couple of the rooms, boy what a mess and a hell of alot is going to charity or the local tip......the worst news came today when i found out that the other five kids love this guy more than me and are already calling him dad....does that indicate im one of the worst fathers on the planet or what.....
you try and try to do the right thing for the children and bring them up and all you get in return is a kick in the teeth....just seems soooooo unfair some days......
keep in touch
julian
you try and try to do the right thing for the children and bring them up and all you get in return is a kick in the teeth....just seems soooooo unfair some days......
keep in touch
julian
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I find that there are times that you won\'t get aot of response or feedback from some of th DS members here becase of many reasons. They may be busy wyh their own problems and schedulesv etc. When I reach out to people sometimes the don\'t respond for a long time or not at all and that\'s ok. We may not have any connection that keeps us tslking. I know that there are days where I don\'t want to do anything. ( not even answering my phone)
in regards to your situation: I doubt that your are a bad father from what youare tellng us. Remember that things happen for a reason and during the time we are experiecing the pain it is hard for anyone to think that in time things will improve.
Hang in there and find something too occupy your mind.
My priorities now are eating healthier, working out to gain 10 pounds in the next 6 months and photography . Get out of the house more. If you like coffee get out and buy it at the local coffee shop. Check int local chapters of an interest of yours:
photograpy club, tennis club , basketball league etc,
good luck to you. I don\'t know your religion but I get alot of comfort listening to Joel Osteen\'s video and audio podcasts . They are free on I-tunes.
You will have good days and terrible days. That is life. How big the problems become is directly related to our attitude about them.
Hope you week gets better. Dan