Yesterday Tara and her kids left w/ her mom to go to NY for 5 wks.  I miss the little ones already.  Mikie is all smiles and happy go lucky, I wish I could have some of that back.   At lest Tara will have her old friends from school, that she grew up w/ to keep her busy.   The delema she is having is let her small condo go back to the bank, it is for sale as a" short sale " so her credit is totally ruined  it is very small 2 bedrm 1 bath place.  she has two kids and lots of toys, no room.  This is the place she spent time in w/ Michael  she doesnt want to leave it yet she needs more room.
I have told her Michael will be w/ her no matter where she lives. he is in her heart forever.  She has said her head knows but its her heart that doesnt understand.  When she gets back from NY she needs to start looking for a job, I have told her that getting a routine back in her life will also help w/ the anxiety she is dealing w/.  Katelyn will be starting kindergarten in the fall, life will change again new things to adjust to.  Once she brings new order to her life and the kids lives, she will be able to make up her mind or have more opportunity to make up her mind.
 
Alyssa (my daughter) has not asked about moving back in....:)  THANK GOD !!!!!
I hope that she has gotten through what ever was bothering her at that time..
I hope that subject is closed....