why
Why do i feel like there is just no point anymore. ive been to plenty of points in my life where there just didnt' seem to have a light at the end, but this just seems to be worse than any. how is it that life just seems to get worse the older you get? i have done so much to alienate everyone around me, which disappoints me. ive known people less than a few weeks who judge me less than my own family does.
Taking a poll - how many people have been judged harshly and/or disowned by their own family because of something that you did, or something that were or weren't supposed to do? I'd listen to everyone's story out there and understand everything I could hear - without judgement and/or self-rightousnous.
Taking a poll - how many people have been judged harshly and/or disowned by their own family because of something that you did, or something that were or weren't supposed to do? I'd listen to everyone's story out there and understand everything I could hear - without judgement and/or self-rightousnous.
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Well I have!! My Father wouldnt barely speak to me for weeks and actually sided with my H who was telling lies to him. My sister also sided with my H. and gave him ideas on ways to make my life a living hell. I finally got really mad at both of them and told them that this is my life. You guys arent in my marriage I am. Once I made them understand everything they now seem ok with it all. Dealing with my H is easier than my Dad!! I did write my Dad a very long letter explaining things and that seemed to get him to \"ease up\" on me. I dont know the whole story but I sure do understand!!
When I started getting judged by my \'supposed\' family, I walked away from them. I hate to make a decision to take care of ME and my children. When trying to maintain a relationship because drama filled and hurt, I decided I don\'t need \'that\' relationship. And I have no regrets to this day.
Family tends to be your harshest critics. That\'s just the way it works sometimes:(